Today i was called sexist for stating that yanking your girlfriend’s shirt up because you “didn’t want her to look like a whore” just might be disgusting and patriarchal. The reason? Because i was viewing the girlfriend as a woman instead of as an individual. You know, like how acknowledging micro-aggressions is actually essentializing. Ugh
Oh you were relaxed and happy? How about a vague sense of anxiety, unease and personal failure.